Showing posts with label Kealah Parkinson. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Kealah Parkinson. Show all posts

Jul 17, 2012

Summary: Welcome back to the Beyond Talk blog! Read today's post to learn more about last week's mini-blog tweet of the word granular as an industry buzzword.


Do you follow me on Twitter (@KealahParkinson)? If so, you've been getting mini-blog posts on WOW Words of the Week—industry buzzword terms like last week's granular.

Granular (GRAN - yeh - LEHR) – Its basic definition is something grainy or seemingly consisting of grains, such as sugar or sand; but in business-speak, it means finely detailed. In other words, it's getting down to the nitty-gritty. Sample sentence: "The client was pleased that Sue's proposal was granularly focused on the service schedule of our project." Etymology: This word entered the English language in the late 1700s from the Latin granule, a diminutive of the Latin word granum for grain or seed. Related word: Granola—which, when used colloquially to mean nature-oriented and/or modern-day-hippie, is decidedly un-business-oriented!

© KiKi Productions, Inc. 2012

Apr 23, 2010

Kealah's Personal Update

You may have noticed that Beyond Talk looks a little different ... again. Here's a run-down of some of the changes that have been made to the blog recently:

- Speak your truth! Participate in the poll. You checked out the last poll--"What stops your from speaking your truth?"--and the tallied votes showed that fear is the number one emotion that holds you back. So, now I'm asking you, "How do you overcome your fear?" Don't be afraid to speak up and share! You can find the old poll--and all closed polls to come in the future--located at the very bottom of the blog site's left-hand column.

- Book me on GigSalad.com! Looking for a speaker or entertainer for your next meeting or event? The button added to the very top of this blog page takes you directly to my profile on that great clearinghouse for professional speakers, emcees, bands and other entertainers for your party, event, corporate meeting or--in my case--workshop. I'm available for panel discussions, lectures and various workshops, such as lunch-and-learn occasions. (Of course, you can always contact me directly via my website, but GigSalad.com gives you a great selection to choose from. Choose wisely!)

- Groooooow: I'm also on SelfGrowth.com, a fantastic resource for all things personal-growth-related. Click the banner link on the left-hand side of the page, just under my Twitter and Facebook links (and right above my blogroll list of all the awesome blogs I recommend for YOU)! Let's grow together.

Have a great weekend.


© KiKi Productions, Inc. 2010

Nov 16, 2009

WORD OF THE WEEK: Ineluctable Vocabulary Aid

Summary: You can count on Beyond Talk to introduce a new word to build your vocabulary every Monday. But what else is ineluctable in your life?

One of the benefits of regularly reading this blog is the boost it gives your vocabulary. Each week, I feature a new word—complete with pronunciation help—that you may or may not know. The fact is, even if the weekly word isn't new to you, it's always a boon to have a little reinforcement to what you do know.

You might say it's ineluctably helpful.

But perhaps you might not. After all, you don't have to read this blog! But if you subscribe to it, follow it, are a fan of my Facebook page (see the new link box below), tweet me on Twitter, connect with me on LinkedIn or regularly check out my website, you haven't got much escape from the weekly vocab words. ... And maybe you're stalking me? Or likely you're really interested in and dedicated to improving your communication skills. (My lawyer and I sure hope so.)

What's most ineluctable in today's society, it seems, is social networking. In case you haven't already gleaned it from the word's usage, here is the definition of today's featured word:

Ineluctable (IN - ee - LUCK - ta - bil) - (adj.) unavoidable; not to be resisted or changed; inevitable. From the Latin ineluctabilis, meaning a combination of "to struggle clear of" and "to wrestle from" and "to dislocate," it entered the English language around 1623.

Some say that in American society, the only ineluctabilities are death and taxes. But many of us find so many other ineluctable instances in our lives. I know that blogging three times a week is pretty much a given for me. So, what's ineluctable about your day-to-day life? ... And if you could change it, would you?

© KiKi Productions, Inc. 2009

Sep 30, 2009

TRULY SPEAKING: The Secret to Getting What You Want

Summary: Today's post discusses the law of attraction, used in The Secret and other New Age products, and the one simple question you can ask yourself in every situation in order to communicate your needs—to yourself and those around you—best.

Surely you've heard the secret—The Secret, that is, by Rhonda Byrne. If you're someone who's managed to avoid hearing about this widely popularized book, CD set, movie or general technique, let me be the first to break it down for you: The secret to The Secret is the law of attraction, or the idea that like attracts like.

Sir Isaac Newton's law of universal gravitation states in part that "two bodies attract each other with equal and opposite force." Although there's much more to his law than this, the principle has been borrowed by New Age coaches and modern thinkers of every type to promote the law of attraction. Byrne's 'secret' is out!

So, what does this mean for you, as someone who's presently looking to improve the way you speak, write or think under pressure? Here's the second secret: *Pssst!* The more you honor your deepest desires, the more likely you are to elicit them from the world around you.

Ask yourself, "Why do I want to improve the way I communicate?" Is it for a raise or a promotion; to impress your boss or co-workers; to win that sales incentive of the new car or vacation package? If it's anywhere along these lines, your deepest desires—in this case, anyway—are financially driven. Do you want to impress a certain someone you just met or to change the way you automatically react to your significant other? If so, you're most motivated by romance right now. These are just a couple of examples that can vary from situation to situation or even moment to moment.

Asking, "What do I want most right now?" each time you feel tongue-tied or confused will help you more clearly state—first to yourself and then to the world around you—what exactly you need or want. And that will help you determine how to go about getting it gracefully.

To further improve the way you speak, write or think under pressure, contact Communications Coach Kealah Parkinson at Kealah@KiKiProductionsInc.com and type "Speak with Kealah" in the subject line.

© KiKi Productions, Inc. 2009

Jul 17, 2009

WEEKLY UPDATE: What's New for July

Those of you paying attention may have noticed that there was no post on Wednesday of this week. That’s because the Beyond Talk blog is on a pseudo-sabbatical for the remainder of July.

Here’s what’s in the works:

• “Speak Your Truth” e-course—How to Get What You Want by Saying What You Mean (downloadable 5-week course includes a students-only Facebook Group where you can practice everything you learn in practical application)

• Expert articles and how-to videos that teach even more tips and tricks to speaking successfully

• Real-world teleconferences and lectures featuring Communications Coach Kealah Parkinson. (Hey, that’s me!)

Words of the Week will continue to posted each Monday during this hiatus-of-sorts. And your comments are always welcome! Let me know if there’s anything else I can do for you as I strive to make our world a friendlier place that’s easier to understand.

Truly speaking beyond talk,







(c) KiKi Productions, Inc. 2009

Jul 1, 2009

TRULY SPEAKING: Kealah the Tergiversator

It's true: Even I have been guilty of tergiversation in my lifetime. Although I consider myself loyal—almost to a fault—I've had my share of apostasy and abandonment. Here's an alphabetical list of a dozen examples:

- babysitting
- baton twirling
- choir
- drinking
- Girl Scouts
- gymnastics
- Ouija boards
- softball
- smoking
- swimming
- tap dancing
- youth group

Perhaps some of these don't really count as groups or beliefs I've tergiversated. After all, I still believe in the altruistic and shaping abilities of the Girl Scouts. And I didn't so much as turn my back on my church youth group as a teen as I did ... well, graduate. Furthermore, I may well have decided that tap dancing, swimming, baton twirling, and softball are not for me. But I would certainly never begrudge YOUR passion for any of them, nor try to change your mind about pursuing these.

So, my remaining contestant friends, do any of these hints help?


(c) KiKi Productions, Inc. 2009

Jun 17, 2009

TRULY SPEAKING: Last Week's Contest Still Running

If you thought I'd tergiversated on last week's contest, think again! There's still one winner's spot open—and one more word usage left to be guessed. It's okay to cheat in this contest and use an aide (like an online dictionary), especially if you tell on yourself and share that resource with the rest of us!

Congratulations again to Fellini69. To claim your prize—one free hour of speech coaching to work on any communication issue you choose—simply contact me directly at Kealah@KiKiProductionsInc.com.

I'm looking forward to hearing from you, Fellini69. ... And I'm looking forward to hearing from the rest of you on ANY of the Words of the Week or any other communications points you want to discuss on Beyond Talk. You are never alone when it comes to questions about how to improve your speaking, writing or conflict resolution skills. So don't tergiversate about it. Get to the point today!

(c) KiKi Productions, Inc. 2009

Jun 8, 2009

WORD OF THE WEEK: Guess the Meaning!

Today's word of the day comes from Dictionary.com—and it comes with a twist: This week, rather than tell you the meaning and etymology of the word, I'm going to use it in a sentence and ask you to tell me where it came from or what it means. Think you can handle it? Get ready to play!

"It's not uncommon for politicians to talk around a topic, making an art of tergiversation in answer to a question, especially on controversial subjects." Also: "Senator Arlen Specter has been accused of selling out to the highest-voting bidder after his tergiversation of the Republican Party."

Those are your clues. The first 2 people to comment with the right definition (and/or etymology) will win 1 hour of consultation with me, Kealah Parkinson, for FREE.

Need help overcoming speaking shyness? Having troubles with hemming and hawing when you really want to be making your point? Bring your woes to the session, and see how an hour with a speech coach can cure your tergiversation today!

(c) KiKi Productions, Inc. 2009

May 20, 2009

TRULY SPEAKING: What do you truly want out of life?

Asking ourselves, "What do I really want the most?" is the best thing we can do—any time, any place, anywhere. But the answer can be quite different from, "What do I want right now?"

In Betsy Talbot's latest Married with Luggage blog post, she asks us to ask ourselves both of those questions—and then focus on what we learn from the differences in our answers. "What do I want right now?" can still be an important question. In fact, it can be the first question to start with in conflict resolution, especially if it's followed closely by Betsy's follow-up, "What do I want most?" (And the third and equally as important question in peace-making is always, "What do I have in common with the other party, or what do we both want?")

But Betsy asks some further thought-provoking questions this week: "What does your ideal lifestyle look like? Are you on your way to creating it? What is the hardest part for you?"

Here's my answer:

I most want to help people articulate their innermost desires for good, and to be a beacon of change for the world, one person at a time. (A friend once teased me, saying the title of my biography would be "Kealah Saves the World through Off-Hand Suggestion"!) I meet at least one small goal a day toward this greater good. The hardest part: patience!

What's your answer? I truly want to know ...

(c) KiKi Productions, Inc. 2009

May 8, 2009

WEEKLY UPDATE: Beyond Talk Announces Change for the Better

This week, I heard about an amazing documentary called “Playing for Change: Peace through Music” by Mark Johnson and his crew at PlayingForChange.com. The movie, still in production, documents the efforts to bring street musicians from around the world—along with some celebrities, both living and dead—together to harmonize and synchronize on a handful of powerful songs. (My favorites are “War/No More Trouble” and “Stand By Me.”) In an effort to practice what they preach, Playing For Change Foundation was formed as an international non-profit to bring funding to music and art schools to some of the most struggling corners of the globe.

Playing For Change is an organization that speaks the truth as a beautiful mouthpiece for the underprivileged, giving voice not just to their troubles, but also their deepest longings for betterment.

We all desire change for the better, and many of us struggle to make our voices heard. Beyond Talk wants to see you succeed in all your goals and dreams. Our new blog schedule aims to help you do just that! Look each week for the following posts:

MondaysWord of the Week, a vocabulary-expanding post that also spotlights online resources like e-dictionaries

WednesdaysTruly Speaking, dynamic posts that feature common areas of communication improvement for your benefit

FridaysWeekly Update, which gives you a sneak peek behind the scenes at Beyond Talk to learn the latest in what’s happening with Kealah Parkinson and KiKi Productions, Inc.

(c) KiKi Productions, Inc. 2009

Apr 28, 2009

Blogger Buzz: We want to hear from you!


Hey, bloggers! If you use Blogger or Blogspot, you'll want to check out this new link to their feedback forum that was just released yesterday. It allows you to submit and vote on new features, gadgets, and even Blogs of Note. The forum is open for a limited time, and will close on Friday, May 14, so don't miss this prime open sourcing opportunity to be heard! Click the link below to connect. And don't forget to communicate with me as to whether or not this was helpful to you ....

Blogger Buzz: We want to hear from you!

Apr 8, 2009

Speaking of Success: Open Source Means Open Dialogue


This week, I traveled to New York City from Chicago on my favorite airline. JetBlue is headquartered in New York and has JFK International Airport as its major hub, featuring a newly renovated terminal with a number of innovative features—including to-your-gate food service delivery. In-flight entertainment options, such as DirectTV, XM Satellite Radio, The New York Times on Air, and free-of-charge healthy snacks are just some of what makes this 8-year old company a major competitor against airlines that are struggling after decades of doing business.

Besides its branded “Even More Leg Room” and leather seats for every passenger (along with the amenities named above), what makes jetBlue so special as a standout in its industry?

The fact is, the company has been earning accolades every year since its inaugural flight in 2000. But what really gave it wings was a much-publicized customer service catastrophe on Valentine’s Day of 2006, when jetBlue learned the hard way what not to do—the key word being, “learned.” What might have sunken another such young company kept jetBlue sailing through the skies: After disgruntled passengers were kept aboard grounded flights at JFK for several hours during an ice storm, the airline created its Customer Bill of Rights, stating among other things, that passengers who experience on-board ground delays will be reimbursed to some extent for the inconvenience. In June of the following year, it miraculously ranked highest in customer satisfaction of all North American low-cost air carriers by J.D. Power & Associates—an honor it continues to boast to date.

This ‘open source-esque’, evolving strategy keeps the “customer satisfaction” brand alive and well. In example, witness the honesty of CEO David Neeleman, who—rather than downplaying the Valentine’s Day event—gave an emotional press conference a few days later, where he confessed to feeling “humiliated and mortified,” and even shared with the world the reasons behind the debacle: a faulty communications system between pilots and other staff that slowed service options down to a standstill. The changes made to the company’s communication infrastructure ensured that the Customer Bill of Rights was more than just lip service.

On my own flight, I got to see this super-hyped customer satisfaction promise in action: The electronic equipment for the plane’s entertainment system was out of order, which meant I received a $15.00 voucher toward my next jetBlue flight. Also, we passengers were informed of the glitch at the gate prior to boarding; both the pilot and the flight attendants made additional apologetic announcements at take-off, as well.

The most important factor in any open source service or product is always an open dialogue with the customer. I frequently receive e-mail messages from this customer-oriented airline after my flights, often containing a survey form. I love to fill out these forms, cherishing the opportunity to voice my opinions about how I believe the company and crew have (or have not) gone above and beyond to enhance my in-flight experience.

How do you keep the channels of communications open with your customers or potential customers? Is your brand sending an inconsistent message? Or do you take an honest and open approach to welcoming feedback and aligning or alleviating inconsistencies? Studies show that surveys that use a combination of ratings and written feedback can best measure customer satisfaction. Implementing the survey findings is the height of marketing strategy. KiKi Productions, Inc., can help you implement the right survey approach and the right branding solutions for your company’s target audience. Talk about satisfying!

(c) KiKi Productions, Inc. 2009